
About

Her work and what shapes it
Meet Perry
Perry King is a relationship therapist with over 15 years of experience working in private practice. Her work spans intimate relationships, the relationship we have with ourselves, family dynamics and the impact of relational patterns in professional life.
Trained in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy with international relationship therapy leaders Dr Ellyn Bader & Dr Peter Pearson, Perry's approach is grounded in evidence-based relationship therapy and a strong commitment to ongoing learning.
In recent years, she has integrated women-centred coaching principles focused on identity, connection with self, self-worth, and personal power, deepening her work with women navigating relational patterns and life transitions.
Perry also brings live experience. She re-partnered twenty-five years ago and has two adult children from her previous marriage, giving her a grounded understanding of the complex realities of relationships and family life.
Why Reclaiming You?
A note from Perry
In my work, I began to notice a common pattern. Many women become over accomadating in relationships, slowly eroding their sense of self. Over time, this often results in blurred boundaries and familiar relational dynamics repeating.
Without clarity around how these patterns develop, insight alone is often not enough to create lasting change. Reclaiming You was developed to offer clear, meaningful insight that helps women make sense of these patterns, understand what has shaped them, and begin to respond differently.
The programme provides a structured, practical way to develop self-awareness, strengthen differentiation, and relate with greater steadiness and confidence in everyday life. It can sit alongside individual therapy or be undertaken on its own, offering support that is thoughtful, grounded, and sustainable.
Perry King.


“I have learned new ways to improve communication in my relationship which have really helped, along with practical techniques to deal with self-doubt.”
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- SAMANTHA | TAUPO -
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Advance training in the Bader Pearson Developmental Model of Couple Therapy
P.G. Dip. Counselling
Bachelor’s degree from Auckland University
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MNZAC, Registered with NZAC
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Committed to ongoing developmentand training in all areas of
relationship therapy.



Perry King
RECLAIMING YOU: A SELF-GUIDED JOURNEY TO BETTER RELATIONSHIPS